WHY SWINGING MARRIAGES CONTINUE IN NH
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Definition of Adultery:
NH Adultery Law:
TITLE LXII, CRIMINAL CODE, CHAPTER 645, NH RSA 645:3 Adultery - A person is guilty of a class B misdemeanor if, being a married person, engages in sexual intercourse with another not his/her spouse or, being unmarried, engages in sexual intercourse with another known by him/her to be married. Source. 1971, 518:1, 1971, 269:19, eff. July 1, 1992.
The important fact to this law is two very important words. It very clearly defines the act of sexual intercourse as, "with another." Not with a person of the opposite gender that "could lead to the conception of a baby." The definition of "another" is, "One that is different and/or in addition to!" One that is different, clarifies it does not have to be only with one of the opposite gender. In addition to, clearly clarifies that adultery can be other sexual acts that are above and beyond the penetration to the vagina by a penis alone. What it clearly does not biasly state here is, engages in "sexual intercourse that is limited to sexual acts that could lead to the conception of a baby". Nor does it biasly clarify that, "a homosexual affair does not rise to the level of adultery under NH law." In fact, it very clearly describes the opposite. Homosexual affairs do rise to the level of adultery under NH law.
N.H. reacts to Supreme Court gay marriage decision “Today, the Supreme Court has affirmed the founding principle of the United States of America that all are created equal,” Gov. Maggie Hassan said in a statement. “All married couples, no matter their gender, will receive the fair and equal treatment under the law that they so rightly deserve.” This has yet to come to full fruition in NH and is just simply untrue. Blanchflower v. Blanchflower is evidence of that.
"CNN - Is Adultery a Crime? Over the two centuries that the law has been on New Hampshire's books, penalties have ranged from a year in jail or up to 39 lashes. In 1992, the penalty was reduced to a fine of up to $1,200 -- with no jail time........Kevin Smith, executive director of Cornerstone Action, a conservative think tank in New Hampshire, said the state should not take a laissez-faire attitude toward infidelity. After working for years with juvenile justice services, he said that he saw firsthand the effects of adultery on children. "If you think a broken family doesn't cost taxpayers, think again," Smith said. "It is the state's concern if more families dissolve because of the costs."
Some people have hypocritically argued that the state has no business telling two consenting adults what they can or cannot do. However, the one important fact that is being completely ignored in this statement, is that one of these consenting adults is already legally bound by a binding contract, the same as legalized partnerships are in business. So in other words, ignore contractual laws just because one of the partners just simply consents to do so and do their business elsewhere? My deepest sympathy to all the unfortunate partners of those who think this way. This infectious consenting and swinging loose attitude, is why NH divorce rates are climbing by the minute.
Sadly however, it appears that NH's courts are in full agreement with this theory. Well, small minds can truly think allot alike, equally the same as great ones do. Research throughout NH court records conducted from one of the assistant county attorneys concluded that, NH courts have never once charged adultery in well over fifty years throughout the entire state. But then again, NH is the only state in the entire country with a supreme court needing a sex education class in the 21st century to explain what sexual intercourse even is. They not only documented having to look it up, but based their entire findings of fact and ruling of law on a 1960's Webster Dictionary's definition for the case of Blanchflower v Blanchflower. NH's Supreme Court did not even know what the activity was called, that they themselves performed in the privacy of their own bedrooms. Even after being educated by a Webster dictionary, NH justices still refuse to this day to rule on their own perception of adultery. So this means, for well over half a century to this present day, not one married person in the entire state of NH, has ever had sexual intercourse with anyone other than their spouse, "that can lead to the conception of a baby", in the eyes of the courts. Amazing! So sorry to burst their perfect bubble, but no, baby's are not, nor have they ever been, delivered to your front doorstep by the stork, like a jar of classic pickles.
This truly is historical and one that should go down in history books to say the least. NH's reality is not the perfect Stepford Wives fictional state that NH's confused but delusional courts insist on portraying it as. NH Court's are truly it's own entity and a government branch who has simply gone rogue. They continue to simply make-up through their crystal balls and delusional mirror mirrors on their walls, their own "rules governing" that "so promulgated shall have the force and affect of law", as stated in Article 73a only written by them. This is nothing more than false perception being clarified now as law, only as NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch sees it. The facts still remain, and that is that NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch is enforcing anything but legislative law. Especially when they simply rewrite or just simply write their own false perception and history of the laws. Only as they will see fit, instead of enforcing the laws legislation has very clearly written and passed.
"Prostitution and Adultery have been illegal for years in NH. Yet, NH is the only state in the entire nation with 50 years of records, showing a Judicial System Gone Rogue, leaving nothing but an endless debris of ex-spouses in their wake! Well, this clearly explains why and how NH politicians and judges are not outed for any extra marital affairs!"
NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch of government continues to brake legislative laws, and history. Just to be the only legal swinging marriages state of embarrassment to the entire country. The domino effect however, is actually producing Attorneys such as Richard C Follender to now fall in line, to desperately defend the practice of adultery in NH. Now by arguing that clients who commit adultery are seeking help from NH's Al-anon programs. He contest that Al-anon's Twelve Step Programs are now counseling marriage, along with now treating sex addiction for those who are repeat offenders, committing adultery in NH. In other words, adultery and sex addiction in NH are now considered a form of substance abuse? So as long as you are seeking treatment with Al-anon for committing adultery, it's all good with NH courts? They truly have taken, keep it simple stupid, to a whole new level. Sadly but thankfully, only in a NH courtroom can you sell this line of defense and actually find both marital masters and judges who will simply buy it. Adultery throughout NH is a wildfire disease that's clearly spreading out of control. It has broken many of NH's families and burned many marriages to the ground, and we don't even have to ask why it's happening. NH court records prove Adultery will never be charged in NH. According to NH records, swinging while in a NH marriage is just simply a No Fault Divorce that's just a little Irreconcilable Differences. This is all that it will ever be in the eyes of the courts.
Another reality in NH is that, not one professional in the field of psychology has yet to clarify Al-anon as a true method of treatment for marital relationships or adultery, let alone sex addiction for that matter. Sadly, all of this only proves one thing. Morality for the sanctimony of marriage in NH has literally gone straight to hell in a hand basket. It is truly just a thing of the past.
Some people are concerned that some NH justices, who while they themselves were suppose to be a fair clear open minded 3rd party, ruling on the demise of your marriage, were also simultaneously in the process of divorcing their own spouses. Yes it's true. Some NH Justices, while ruling on divorces, have also personally experienced these proceedings from the other side of the bench simultaneously. Some even as many as 3 times themselves. This is why some question if NH judges should be psychologically screened regularly. If they can't fairly support their own marriages, how do they separate personal experience and opinion from their legal responsibilities, to be capable to conclude what is a fair divorce. Especially if their making up their own rules as they go along. So lets just say that their own final divorce decrees would now truly be an interesting read, along with hearing their ex's side of the story.
NH politicians and NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch truly have the best of both worlds! The state's politicians will continue to pass strong laws on behalf of the people, but only on record. NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch will continue to make-up their own delusional rules governing, and continue to enforce only false perception of the laws already written. But in the cases of NH adultery, NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch has yet to at least enforce their own false perception of the law even once. Legal justice in NH is a flip of a coin, and a thing of the past, and nothing to do with the law. Truly this only makes a lawyers job that much more difficult, but only at the expense, a very costly price, for their clients to ultimately pay for, in their unjustly end of a marriage. Welcome to NH, but only as NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch sees it. After all, they do have the final say now don't they!
Definition of Adultery:
"a·dul·ter·y
əˈdəlt(ə)rē/
noun
noun: adultery; plural noun: adulteries
- 1.voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse. Extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations; "adultery is often cited as grounds for divorce.""she was committing adultery with a much younger man"
synonyms: infidelity, unfaithfulness, falseness, disloyalty, cuckoldry, extramarital sex; More
informalcarrying-on, hanky-panky, two-timing, a bit on the side, fooling around, playing around, dirty weekend"his adultery finally caught up with him"antonyms: fidelity"
TITLE LXII, CRIMINAL CODE, CHAPTER 645, NH RSA 645:3 Adultery - A person is guilty of a class B misdemeanor if, being a married person, engages in sexual intercourse with another not his/her spouse or, being unmarried, engages in sexual intercourse with another known by him/her to be married. Source. 1971, 518:1, 1971, 269:19, eff. July 1, 1992.
N.H. reacts to Supreme Court gay marriage decision “Today, the Supreme Court has affirmed the founding principle of the United States of America that all are created equal,” Gov. Maggie Hassan said in a statement. “All married couples, no matter their gender, will receive the fair and equal treatment under the law that they so rightly deserve.” This has yet to come to full fruition in NH and is just simply untrue. Blanchflower v. Blanchflower is evidence of that.
"CNN - Is Adultery a Crime? Over the two centuries that the law has been on New Hampshire's books, penalties have ranged from a year in jail or up to 39 lashes. In 1992, the penalty was reduced to a fine of up to $1,200 -- with no jail time........Kevin Smith, executive director of Cornerstone Action, a conservative think tank in New Hampshire, said the state should not take a laissez-faire attitude toward infidelity. After working for years with juvenile justice services, he said that he saw firsthand the effects of adultery on children. "If you think a broken family doesn't cost taxpayers, think again," Smith said. "It is the state's concern if more families dissolve because of the costs."
Some people have hypocritically argued that the state has no business telling two consenting adults what they can or cannot do. However, the one important fact that is being completely ignored in this statement, is that one of these consenting adults is already legally bound by a binding contract, the same as legalized partnerships are in business. So in other words, ignore contractual laws just because one of the partners just simply consents to do so and do their business elsewhere? My deepest sympathy to all the unfortunate partners of those who think this way. This infectious consenting and swinging loose attitude, is why NH divorce rates are climbing by the minute.
Sadly however, it appears that NH's courts are in full agreement with this theory. Well, small minds can truly think allot alike, equally the same as great ones do. Research throughout NH court records conducted from one of the assistant county attorneys concluded that, NH courts have never once charged adultery in well over fifty years throughout the entire state. But then again, NH is the only state in the entire country with a supreme court needing a sex education class in the 21st century to explain what sexual intercourse even is. They not only documented having to look it up, but based their entire findings of fact and ruling of law on a 1960's Webster Dictionary's definition for the case of Blanchflower v Blanchflower. NH's Supreme Court did not even know what the activity was called, that they themselves performed in the privacy of their own bedrooms. Even after being educated by a Webster dictionary, NH justices still refuse to this day to rule on their own perception of adultery. So this means, for well over half a century to this present day, not one married person in the entire state of NH, has ever had sexual intercourse with anyone other than their spouse, "that can lead to the conception of a baby", in the eyes of the courts. Amazing! So sorry to burst their perfect bubble, but no, baby's are not, nor have they ever been, delivered to your front doorstep by the stork, like a jar of classic pickles.
This truly is historical and one that should go down in history books to say the least. NH's reality is not the perfect Stepford Wives fictional state that NH's confused but delusional courts insist on portraying it as. NH Court's are truly it's own entity and a government branch who has simply gone rogue. They continue to simply make-up through their crystal balls and delusional mirror mirrors on their walls, their own "rules governing" that "so promulgated shall have the force and affect of law", as stated in Article 73a only written by them. This is nothing more than false perception being clarified now as law, only as NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch sees it. The facts still remain, and that is that NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch is enforcing anything but legislative law. Especially when they simply rewrite or just simply write their own false perception and history of the laws. Only as they will see fit, instead of enforcing the laws legislation has very clearly written and passed.
"Prostitution and Adultery have been illegal for years in NH. Yet, NH is the only state in the entire nation with 50 years of records, showing a Judicial System Gone Rogue, leaving nothing but an endless debris of ex-spouses in their wake! Well, this clearly explains why and how NH politicians and judges are not outed for any extra marital affairs!"
NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch of government continues to brake legislative laws, and history. Just to be the only legal swinging marriages state of embarrassment to the entire country. The domino effect however, is actually producing Attorneys such as Richard C Follender to now fall in line, to desperately defend the practice of adultery in NH. Now by arguing that clients who commit adultery are seeking help from NH's Al-anon programs. He contest that Al-anon's Twelve Step Programs are now counseling marriage, along with now treating sex addiction for those who are repeat offenders, committing adultery in NH. In other words, adultery and sex addiction in NH are now considered a form of substance abuse? So as long as you are seeking treatment with Al-anon for committing adultery, it's all good with NH courts? They truly have taken, keep it simple stupid, to a whole new level. Sadly but thankfully, only in a NH courtroom can you sell this line of defense and actually find both marital masters and judges who will simply buy it. Adultery throughout NH is a wildfire disease that's clearly spreading out of control. It has broken many of NH's families and burned many marriages to the ground, and we don't even have to ask why it's happening. NH court records prove Adultery will never be charged in NH. According to NH records, swinging while in a NH marriage is just simply a No Fault Divorce that's just a little Irreconcilable Differences. This is all that it will ever be in the eyes of the courts.
Another reality in NH is that, not one professional in the field of psychology has yet to clarify Al-anon as a true method of treatment for marital relationships or adultery, let alone sex addiction for that matter. Sadly, all of this only proves one thing. Morality for the sanctimony of marriage in NH has literally gone straight to hell in a hand basket. It is truly just a thing of the past.
Some people are concerned that some NH justices, who while they themselves were suppose to be a fair clear open minded 3rd party, ruling on the demise of your marriage, were also simultaneously in the process of divorcing their own spouses. Yes it's true. Some NH Justices, while ruling on divorces, have also personally experienced these proceedings from the other side of the bench simultaneously. Some even as many as 3 times themselves. This is why some question if NH judges should be psychologically screened regularly. If they can't fairly support their own marriages, how do they separate personal experience and opinion from their legal responsibilities, to be capable to conclude what is a fair divorce. Especially if their making up their own rules as they go along. So lets just say that their own final divorce decrees would now truly be an interesting read, along with hearing their ex's side of the story.
NH politicians and NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch truly have the best of both worlds! The state's politicians will continue to pass strong laws on behalf of the people, but only on record. NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch will continue to make-up their own delusional rules governing, and continue to enforce only false perception of the laws already written. But in the cases of NH adultery, NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch has yet to at least enforce their own false perception of the law even once. Legal justice in NH is a flip of a coin, and a thing of the past, and nothing to do with the law. Truly this only makes a lawyers job that much more difficult, but only at the expense, a very costly price, for their clients to ultimately pay for, in their unjustly end of a marriage. Welcome to NH, but only as NH's Gone Rogue Judicial Branch sees it. After all, they do have the final say now don't they!
What is Al-Anon and Alateen?
The Al-Anon (for adults) and Alateen (for teens) program is a Twelve Step program for the relatives and friends of alcoholics or someone who is or has been a problem drinker. It is not uncommon for potential newcomers to attend Al-Anon because someone they care about is dependent on both alcohol and drugs, or other types of support programs may not be available to them.
However, Al-Anon and Alateen focus on alcoholism and alcohol issues, not other substance abuse problems. Only concerns related to the impact of a relative or friend’s drinking and application of the Al-Anon/Alateen principles are discussed at Al-Anon/Alateen meetings and appear in Al-Anon/Alateen literature.
7 comments:
This is a very detailed analysis that cannot be disputed by any means. How many other states are doing this? New Hampshire's justices have flushed the sanctimony of marriage right down the toilet without even have to flush. This is no great feet to be proud of by any means. This is not a family oriented state! What the hell kind of state takes pride in doing this? You don't have to go far to learn what's wrong with the younger generation. Look how their being raised in New Hampshire. I would love to hear what Dr. Phil has to say about the entire state of New Hampshire's swinging ways in the 21st century!
In the case of Blanchflower v Blanchflower, the court originally ruled in the husbands favor. The wife did have a lesbian affair. The supreme court however overruled the courts and reversed their findings based only on the definition of "sexual intercourse" from a Webster Dictionary and not the law. Clearly in their small minds, adultery is only committed with a penis and a vagina! NH has openly invited all other forms of sex with a third party into a marriage when the law does not! how sick is that!
When you have a government who "takes a laissez-faire attitude toward infidelity", is pretty sick in itself. You most certainly don't have to ask why 12 year olds are sexually active and conceiving babies, within a state who approves three ways in a marriage! This does affect increases to our Welfare and Medicaid. I say let NH judges pay up that damn bill since their the cause of it!
There's allot of ways to have physical sex outside a marriage with an outside third party. Yet it's only considered just emotional infidelity. What it should be called is the truth. It's physical infidelity, nothing more, nothing less. If your touching another person sexually, than you are physically cheating on your spouse.
You do make a good point. Physically cheating would be the actual cause of the breakdown in a marriage. The emotional infidelity is the after affect from the actual cause! Saying it's only emotional infidelity is completely wrong and completely ignores the actual physical crime against a marriage. That's just ridiculous ignorance on NH's part, along with plain stupidity!
NH truly broke the record on this one if this is true. It says allot about where NH stands on adultery when a sick spouse feels free enough to tell their significant other they are in a three-way with a co-worker and a mistress! How and why is this being completely ignored in NH? We should probably go back to the old ways and inflict consequences like they did back then. Especially with jackasses like this Follender lawyer treating sex addicts at al-anon meetings. No wonder NH has a problem. Maybe then marriage in NH will have the respect it deserves!
Somebody needs to give New Hampshire's Supreme Court + it's entire Judicial Branch one very long sex education class! Extramarital sex is happening all over the world. But to ignore it and the harm it brings to a marriage is wrong. Marriage is not sacred in NH by any means and apparently neither is the divorce! You people are a joke and do need psychological evaluations! Glad my divorce was not in NH!
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